I'm single and have been since January 2008. It's been a rough few months and it still is. Luckily, I have two beautiful children in my life! A daughter and a son who are my whole world and keep me grounded.


I'm glad to be alive. It's been a lonely journey...from the time I can remember...to now. If my kids weren't keeping me grounded, I'd be somewhere by some ocean...drinking a MaiTai and digging for clams like a mad woman...lol.


lol, my daughter says I'm EMO. lol, she may be right to an extent...but, I'm definitely not a cutter, no way, and I like people in general. I guess I feel this way because I lean more towards introvertedness. I've been told that I'm a bit too comfortable being alone. By golly, if I had someone to relate to, then introvertness be damned...we'd have a party! I like people, I just have a time trying to find others who like to talk about the things I enjoy...and I've found a few friends already here on this site and it's given me a smile. thx guys & gals!


I have always been interested in things paranormal and have read up on it since I was a child. I love fantasy, sci-fi, and nature too, and used to draw unicorns, chimeras, dragons, elves...etc. I remember staying up late to watch The Adventures of Jacques Costeau, Believe it or Not, the Twilight Zone, the Elvira Variety Show, etc, etc. LOL, I remember as a tween having a crush on Bela Lugosi...omg...he was really old wasn't he!


I think also, that when I was a kid, I was visited by something...maybe aliens? Because I remember drawing pictures of things with big heads and big black eyes way before X-files and all that came along. It was nothing romantic though...it was incredibly terrifying...so much that I can't remember much...just snatches of it. I'm contemplating regression therapy, but I haven't gotten up the courage to do so, yet. I wonder if I'll be the same?

I like to meet people from all walks of life! Especially those who lead interesting ones and really 'live'...you know what I mean?
I would also like to meet people who are serious about accompanying me to haunted places. I like those who respect the places we visit and show consideration towards both owners and ghosts alike...no funny business.

Genuinely friendly, open-minded people...who really 'see' you as a person...not so much the outside shell...but, the real you inside. The human connection shared in this fashion is...so humbling and spiritual.

Hiking and staying at haunted places! Going onto paranormal internet sites to view the latest photos, EVPs, and videos of ghosts or ghostly activity.
Watching lightning displays during thunderstorms and parking along a safe curb along a street that gets flooded often...to watch and see who attempts to cross! It's funny how many people still try and cross a flooded road...even with small four-bangers.

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I read up on ghosts and ghostly experiences and enjoy reading up on other forms of the paranormal, too...for example, I believe vampires and werewolves exist. I have made it an occasional hobby to stay at known haunted houses (by myself!)and have had some experiences that could only be deemed supernatural. It was exciting, to say the least. I haven't gone to any hotels recently, because the hobby has become quite expensive with gas prices and all. But I do hope to stay at one within the next month, or so.

Mean arrogance...those with a false sense of superiority over others. Any one who hurts the innocent.