I recommend the book: Spirit Connection by Hans Holzer
The book tells you what happens when the enteric seat of human personality leaves the physical body behind and proceeds to a parallel world and no longer has limitations of the heavier physical self. He describes how you will look in this parallel world and how the world looks to you.
He tells of apparitions, auditory experiences, communications through mediums, defines spirituality, near death experiences, knowing your place in the universe, he defines the other side as a complete world, complete with pets.
I appreciate his candid views on sex as a spiritual being and he even discusses abortion.
I also enjoyed his detailed accounts of how the other side has intervened in his life.
128 pages/retail $14.95/Schiffer Publishing