Well here goes my crazy life again.... June 4th 2008 ~ I called my sister Nancy asking her for my cousin Jean Ellens e-mail address, she asked why and I told her I just had a really strange feeling about her when I woke up that morning. Nancy could not find an e-mail address or a phone number. None of us had heard from Jean Ellen since Christmas. Needless to say last week We recieved notice my cousin Jean Ellen had unexpectedly passed away on June 4th 2008. As it turned out she broke her leg had surgery so they could put a pin through the bone she went home and about a week later went to bed with her two Grandaughters that she adopted when thier mom passed at 21 for no reason in bed with the girls Christinna and Deystine 8yrs & 5 yrs.old now woke up in bed with another mommy who was never to wake up again.
Please let me know what you all think of these feelings!? and Please keep good thoughts for these two little girls. They are going through alot right now....from feeling it is their fault to thinking the reason their mommies leave them is cuz they are not good enough. Thank you Sally
Hi Cookie, I don't know the actual cause of the daughters death but the grandmothers was an allergy to the metal pin the put in her leg. Yes it was very untimely death and really hard on the girls but they are in therapy and have a really good support system in place for them now! Thank you for keeping them in your prayers! Big Hugs...Sally
karenmoore wrote:
Hi Sally,
Did the daughter and mother both have autopsies with a determining factor for the cause of death? I feel really bad for these little girls and you have the same gift I do obviously. I would hope that the cause of death was determined on there mother and a grandmother because of the mere fact that what ever the cause of death they need to be warned about it since most deaths (diseases) are hereditary. I am so sorry, Sally! This is horrible and I hope these little girls are going to be okay!
I send my love and prayers to them, Witch Karen "Cookie"
Oh Gheez Sally I thought I had problems those poor kids please give then A hug from me. I know what they are probably feelings like if they hadn't been bad mommy would still be here and you just gotta tell them that god had a reason to take them home and nothing they could have done could have changed it. And that mommy loves them. Wow. How are you doing? Ok.. I hope. I read you have 10 grandbabies. 10 and your only A little bit older then me. 10 I can't get that out of my head. I have two that I don't ever get to see or spoil, My son and his wife leave in San Antonio, Texas and I live in Long Beach, Ca so am sure they have no clue who I am. Hey am also love to crochet, It's so relaxing doing it. I only know one pattern The Grandie Square. So Hope that helped. other suggestion in theorpy with a consulaer.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My heart aches for those two little girls; they have suffered so much loss already in their young lives.
I hope that with the love and support from your family, they will understand that it's NOT their fault, and they did nothing wrong. This isn't a punishment for being "bad", even though I do understand how they might feel this way. My thoughts and prayers for everyone.
That is really sad! I feel really bad for the girls because they are young and they don't understand what is really going on. That is sad about your cousin as well! I will definately keep her, the girls and you and your family in my prayers! That is strange about the feelings but I can say I understand completely because I have had them myself. About a month ago I had this crazy feeling about my Grandma and I could not sleep without calling her to make sure that she was ok, well she was fine thank goodness, but needless to say the feeling for her has not changed and I have not been able to shake it no matter how people try to reassure me. It is really tragic what happened to your cousin and I will keep you all in my prayers.
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