as i sit here and so many times people have asked me about mediumship so i wanted to write this blog it was some of what my wife and i taught and it may or may not help those realize it isnt a game that is played anytime you work with the other side it is never a game and should always be approached professionally and not seen as oh what fun it isnt fun it is something that i take very serious you are talking about peoples loved ones and loved ones of others that passed. so many do cold readings and use crutches now crutches are ok if you you think you need them but i can tell you this the true mediums i know dont use cards boards tea leafs or any other crutch. you want someone to read the cards for you buy yourself a deck and learn how to use them.
ok onto the blog
if one is considering mediumship preperation and condsideration should be addressed of what may happen when working with spirit.
mediumship is not something that should ever be taken lightly. you need to take it seriously.
if you seek mediumship for personal gain or gratification forget it as the penalty could be mental and physical deteration of your health you had better be serious about it.
unless you are serious about developement within ones limits then one should not seek developement at all. mediumship is not a game and if you try and use your gift for personal gains it will com eback on you many fold.
common sense in keeping a level head,exercise,patiences,exhibited and unselfishness.
and most of all sincerity.
spirit teachers do not require meduims to surrender their reason.
you must continue to aspire for knowledge and self improvement
among other qualities to be desired are humility and righteousness.
we now move on to unfoldment and wrap of learning.
hom ecircles have long since been referred to as the best possible way of developing mediumistic ability. this is the most effective and one of th easiest ways of self discovery.
discovery of the spirit world these home circles are designed to motivate individuals to a learning level. not just to witness spirit manestfestation with messages and communication, but for oneself to work on their own way of communicating with spirit. these groups usually gather once a week for an hour to work on thier development.
professional organized groups motivates people at times larger groups can help somplify other and help to excel each other. commitment is important as is attending on a regular basis.
independent method is to work on mediumship at ones own pace and considered to be the least advantageous. the support from others is consideratly better.
subjective method depends on others for their learning while in attendance. no real participation.
other methods of developement
some believe the obstaining from food and other pleasures of the physical body is a way of unfoldment. i wouldnt recommend this method.
the practice of taking drugs whcih is the induction of a mediumistic state by aide of abnormal conditions. again this is never a way to go.
hypnotism or mesmerism state of aide of a hypnotist or mercerize.
. so any how what soes this all mean you may ask simply put if you are going to develope your gift remember that there are many down falls i speak of groups because in groups you can help each other develope . i myself started out sitting circle in many a groups it does help especially if the eprson whom is teaching is lik eth emaster so to speak and walks everyone threw it.
working with someone whom is a medium if you can find someone willing to assist you also is yet another way to go . i dont ever take mediumship lightly and never will . one last thought if you do manage to hone your skills , you never change what you recieve give what you get as the message isnt for you to understand it si meant for the person having a reading. an danother that was taught to me back in 1975 by a great mentor and wonderful teacher is a simply fraze K.I.S.S. yes kiss keep it simple stupid. hope this may have helped
BUT SO FUNNY HOW YOU PUT IT
HAVE FUN, BE SAFE ! 
Do some people really believe its a game[like spin the wheel and today I am a medium}??? Or because they have a seance or take a few lessons that they are a genuine medium? No wonder there are so many fakes out there!
